Love, Sex and 30 Candles (2023)

Love, Sex and 30 Candles (2023)

A standard, yet spicier, grown-up coming-of-age good enough for a girls' night in

5.6

Movie

South Africa
English
Drama, Romance
2023
STEPHINA ZWANE
Anthony Oseyemi, Bahumi Madisakwane, Candice Modiselle

TLDR

Why was there only one sensible man in this film?

What it's about

Four friends, on the brink of turning 30, must confront their past and present relationships as they try to figure out what they wants in life..

The take

Turning 30 is a milestone that is a staple drama storybeat; it's own coming-of-age subgenre for facing unrealized dreams and heartbreak. This South African take adds a few dashes of sex as the lead quartet look back on their college years and mostly lament their dysfunctional, or lacking, love lives. All four women get equal screen time (impressive) and a series of devastating hardships (sad, yet expected), but the predominant focus on their relationship with men cornered it into predictable territory. Ultimately, the film is formulaic, always on the cusp of prioritizing friendships until its archaic romances and interpersonal drama remind you that a man and a job will make you MUCH happier.

What stands out

Unsurprisingly, the men were the most melodramatic aspect, robbing us of the girls' night flick we deserved. When the women's friendship was at the forefront, their chemistry became the saving grace. The squad dynamics are comfortable and nostalgic, especially for 'The Girlfriends' crowd that can't help but watch the mess unfold. Maybe a girls' trip weekend would've been better.

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